Ashley Dirks M.Ed. Educational Relationship Coach
Helping you get unstuck so you can be the best version of yourself!
- Defining who you desire to be, by educating you on recognizing your best self.
- Better communication with self & others.
Mission: To help those that have a desire for change.
Grind The Grit helps individuals create meaningful personal and professional change through coaching and education. We provide structured courses, guided meditation, and practical tools that build self-awareness, resilience, healthy relationships, and values-driven decision-making.
The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you'll go.
Dr. Seuss
About Grind the GRIT
Grind the Grit was born from a personal turning point. Ashley recognized that lasting change begins within—by taking responsibility for our mindset, our choices, and how we respond to life’s challenges. Determined to become the best version of herself, she committed to doing the inner work: getting honest, building discipline, and intentionally reshaping the parts of her character that no longer aligned with her future.
That process—grinding the grit—transformed her life. As clarity and self-awareness grew, so did her effectiveness as a mother, communicator, leader, and contributor to her community. What once caused confusion, emotional strain, and discouragement became fuel for growth and purpose.
Grind the Grit was created to help others experience that same transformation. With a Master’s degree in Adult Education, Ashley designs programs that adapt to how people actually learn. Courses are intentionally structured to support all learning styles—visual, auditory, kinesthetic, and reading/writing—so no learner is left behind.
Through education, reflection, and practical application, Grind the Grit empowers individuals to grow with intention, resilience, and confidence.
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📧 For more information: grindthegritllc@gmail.com
Ashley T. Dirks M.Ed. ~ Education that works for you!
Who is she?
Ashley T. Dirks, M.Ed. is a life strategist who walks alongside individuals as they navigate growth, change, and self-discovery. If you’re wondering what a life strategist is, think of Ashley as an accountability partner—someone who listens deeply, asks the right questions, and helps you think critically about who you are and who you want to become.
Grind the GRIT was created from a genuine concern for the growing need for social-emotional learning and character development. At its core, GTG believes that positive change begins with understanding ourselves and improving how we relate to others. When we strengthen these foundations, everyone connected to us benefits.
Guided by the timeless philosophy of Confucius—“Do not impose on others what you do not wish for yourself”—Grind the GRIT emphasizes integrity, self-awareness, and intentional living. Many of us have felt the impact of environments lacking moral clarity; GTG exists to help restore balance through education, reflection, and practical application.
Through thoughtful questions, leadership guidance, and real-world case studies, participants learn how to shift patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving—creating meaningful, lasting change. Clients gain direct access to the founder and trusted resources, ensuring personalized support every step of the way.
Your growth matters here. Your success is our success.
Contact us today for a free, confidential consultation—we’re ready to see you thrive.
Coaching provides children and families with practical tools to navigate conflict, stress, and anger in healthy, mature ways—often making family life more peaceful and connected. Through coaching, children learn to better understand their emotions, express themselves constructively, and develop skills for emotional regulation. Parents and guardians also gain insight into how their own communication, boundaries, and behaviors can foster stronger, more trusting relationships with their children.
As a mother of two teenage boys, I understand firsthand that there is no single “right” way to raise a child. What I can offer is real-life experience, empathy, and guidance rooted in growth and connection. The past 16 years have been full of learning, challenges, and perspective. While the teenage years are often described as the hardest, my journey has been unique—I navigate a non-custodial parenting relationship with limited visitation. Through this experience, I have learned the power of intentional communication, consistency, and leading by example.
Today, I am deeply grateful for the strong relationship my sons and I have built together. Our bond is the result of mutual effort, respect, and resilience.
If you know a teen who could benefit from coaching—or a parent or guardian seeking support—I would be honored to help. Please feel free to share my information.
Accolades
Founder & Lead Life Strategist
Ashley T. Dirks, M.Ed. earned her Master’s degree in Adult Education from the University of Central Oklahoma (UCO) in Edmond in 2017 and holds a Bachelor’s degree in Human Resource Management. Her passion for education and personal growth drives her commitment to closing gaps in learning and development by sharing knowledge with those who are ready for change.
Ashley brings this passion to life through motivational speaking, life coaching, and business education consultations. She holds certifications in Life Coaching and Mindfulness Meditation from New Skills Academy, equipping her to support both personal and professional growth with intention and balance.
Grind the GRIT, LLC has been officially registered in the State of Oklahoma since March 2020, though the work and mission began several years prior. The organization’s primary focus is personal development through life coaching, motivational speaking, and business education and consulting, with plans to expand services as the mission continues to grow.
Ashley’s expertise is grounded in over five years as a public educator, fifteen years of experience in corporate America, and more than thirty years of faith-based leadership and personal development. Her background in Adult Education allows her to design thoughtful, adaptable curricula that meet learners where they are. Currently, Ashley has reentered the educational field, continuing her lifelong commitment to helping others grow—one life at a time.